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Post by damuniz on Feb 19, 2021 8:17:01 GMT -5
Sincerest condolences.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2021 8:52:46 GMT -5
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
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Post by Leftee on Feb 19, 2021 8:56:41 GMT -5
I looked up that disability/condition. Wow! That is very tough!
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Post by SteveM on Feb 19, 2021 8:59:23 GMT -5
Again, thanks to all for your condolences. It really does help. Scott was dealt a tough hand, but lived a remarkably active, involved, social and long life. We are remembering all that he did, accomplished and shared and think of him being with mom and dad, who passed far too young themselves in 1999/2000.
He is at peace and happy in the embrace of family.
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Post by orrk01 on Feb 19, 2021 9:01:41 GMT -5
My condolences to you and your family for the loss of your brother. I had never heard of Prader Willi Syndrome. Thanks for sharing.
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Post by Leftee on Feb 19, 2021 9:02:14 GMT -5
He was blessed to be embraced by such a family.
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Post by MJB on Feb 19, 2021 12:30:01 GMT -5
Sorry to hear but at least he's in a better place now. RIP
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Post by tahitijack on Feb 19, 2021 17:56:10 GMT -5
Condolences...his spirit will live on through you. Blessings
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Post by SteveM on Feb 19, 2021 20:27:31 GMT -5
Arrangements progressing, my observation thus far is that the frequency of opinions on how things should be done is inversely correlated to the actual time spent with Scott over the last ten years....
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Post by Leftee on Feb 19, 2021 20:48:36 GMT -5
Arrangements progressing, my observation thus far is that the frequency of opinions on how things should be done is inversely correlated to the actual time spent with Scott over the last ten years.... I’ve noted that, as well. |
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Post by Vibroluxer on Feb 19, 2021 20:50:52 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My siblings and I are all well but the day is coming.
I'll keep you and yours in my prayers.
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Post by hushnel on Feb 19, 2021 22:46:13 GMT -5
Love is worth the price, though the pain of loss is great. Peace be with you and your loved ones.
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Post by slacker 🐨 on Feb 20, 2021 14:44:29 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear that.
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Post by NoSoapRadio on Feb 20, 2021 15:19:28 GMT -5
I'm sorry man. I hope he rests easy.
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Post by SteveM on Feb 20, 2021 22:43:46 GMT -5
I have a sister who is on the FB too much.
She posts about my brother’s passing and the 150 or so condolences rush in to feed her endorphins.
One of them is from her sister in law who never even read the obit, as she wished that I RIP.
In the endorphin rush to like every post she liked the post, she liked this post.
I quoted Twain, “reports of my demise are greatly exaggerated” and said that liking the post was a hall of fame Facebook moment.
Now I’m the asshole who hurt her.
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Post by jefe46 on Feb 28, 2021 21:45:01 GMT -5
MY sincere condolences.
My brother died at 37. Jumped off Bixby Bridge a few miles north of Big Sur Nov 12 ,1982.
Glenn Gregory Hildreth R I P
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Post by Bbendfender on Feb 28, 2021 22:19:20 GMT -5
RIP Scott.
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Post by mikem on Mar 1, 2021 13:29:27 GMT -5
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Post by LTB on Mar 2, 2021 19:02:58 GMT -5
I have a sister who is on the FB too much. She posts about my brother’s passing and the 150 or so condolences rush in to feed her endorphins. One of them is from her sister in law who never even read the obit, as she wished that I RIP. In the endorphin rush to like every post she liked the post, she liked this post. I quoted Twain, “reports of my demise are greatly exaggerated” and said that liking the post was a hall of fame Facebook moment. Now I’m the asshole who hurt her. Biggest reason I got of FB well that and political abyss |
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Post by Peegoo 🏁 on Mar 3, 2021 6:47:57 GMT -5
My sincerest condolences, brother.
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Post by Jake on Mar 3, 2021 7:01:46 GMT -5
So sorry to hear take care.
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Post by SteveM on Mar 3, 2021 7:25:48 GMT -5
We had a small visitation and service at the funeral home and then interment last Wednesday. It was nice and he’s buried next to mom and dad.
Somewhere, maybe here, I read that when you lose a brother you lose a part of yourself. I am definitely finding that to be true.
I’m intentionally giving myself time and space to grieve. The work world doesn’t really honor this, and for many of us the need to be “productive” actually increases. I reacted like that 21 years ago when both of our parents passed within 6 months of each other and it was a mistake.
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Post by Leftee on Mar 3, 2021 7:41:37 GMT -5
Grief is so vitally important in our lives. It hurts, but it doesn’t cause damage. But, because it hurts, we think it proper to avoid or mitigate.
Of course, I’m not stating anything you already know, brother.
I’ll sit on your ash heap with you.
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Post by professor on Mar 3, 2021 10:27:46 GMT -5
You and your family have my condolences. It's tough. It's an unfortunate fact that how other family members deal with death can be really grating, no matter how well intended they are. Everyone is raw, including yourself, so try to take a breath and let that stuff go. Take time. It is fantastic that your brother was able to exceed all expectations for the assumed limits of his condition.
My older brother died at 54 because he didn't think he was as sick as he was (pneumonia) and wouldn't go to the hospital; he'd be 71 now. In a way he was true to form (and hypoxia does fog judgement), but I'd still like to kick him for leaving that way.
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Post by RonC Picker on Mar 3, 2021 14:01:24 GMT -5
As one who has lost three siblings, I understand your feelings. My deepest sympathy to your family in your loss.
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Post by WireDog on Mar 4, 2021 18:47:09 GMT -5
Condolences at the loss of your brother, Steve. He's lucky to have had you in his life.
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